How Grandparents Can Help Grandkids be Kindergarten-Ready
Starting kindergarten is a huge milestone for a young child. There are a lot of firsts which can be overwhelming for a four-, five-, or six-year-old. As their grandparent, you can take small intentional steps to help prepare your grandchild for school.
This article was originally published on MoreThanGrand.com
When I taught kindergarten, I loved seeing how involved and supportive grandparents are today. You can be involved in your grandchild’s education by doing more than just attending school events. Children, especially aged 6 and under, learn incredibly fast, so a little bit of effort can add up quickly to huge developmental gains.
Starting kindergarten is a huge milestone for a young child. There are a lot of firsts which can be overwhelming for a four-, five-, or six-year-old. As their grandparent, you can take small intentional steps to help prepare your grandchild for school.
5 simple ways to prepare your grandchild for kindergarten
1. Help your grandchild practice self-control
Soon they will be exploring a new school and classroom, so knowing how to respect other people’s space is essential. Your home is an excellent place to model this. When your grandchildren visit you, they will naturally have to practice self-control as they navigate your space. Place gentle boundaries with them by using timers and discussing “how many” ahead of time. This way, when they find out they’ve eaten their allotment of cookies ,they can practice feeling full instead of begging for more…okay, they still might beg a little.
2. Build your grandchild’s vocabulary
Just as your grandchild had a language explosion when they were a toddler, their brains are ready to learn more advanced language. The simplest way to help your grandchild is to speak to them using an advanced vocabulary. When you talk, use an advanced word and then immediately define it with the simple version. For example: “That flower is lavender, light purple.” “We will have to sprint, run fast, to catch the bus in time.”
3. Improve your grandchild’s fine motor skills
In kindergarten, your grandchild will be asked to grasp pencils and crayons for much longer periods of time than they are used to. This can be physically hard for young children. Incorporate coloring books, activity books, and even old-fashioned worksheets into your routine. Show your grandchild how to write their name and, if they can handle it, the date on their paper.
4. Emphasize responsibility with your grandchild
In kindergarten, your grandchild will be expected to manage their coat, backpack, homework folder, and lunchbox on a daily basis. This can be a huge ask for children and cause a ton of frustration. To prevent this, help your grandchild learn to manage their items. You could start simple with one item like their water bottle, and build this over time. They will need your help with this, but the more they are used to having items to look after, the less likely they are to forget their winter coat at school.
5. Think a little about academics, too
And of course, this article wouldn’t be complete without mentioning academic skills. If you taught in elementary school during your career, the good news is that kindergarten hasn’t changed that much. There are two big changes. The main change is that we hope for children to be reading simple books by the end of kindergarten. The best way to support this is by reading to them often!
The other big difference is that we ask children to be able to explain their thinking. We don’t just want children to memorize their addition facts: they should be able to show the process they used to solve the problem. You can support your grandchild by having in depth conversations and modeling how to explain their answer. It might sound something like this: I know 5 + 2 is 7 because 5 + 1 makes 6, and one more makes 7.
A little bit of intention goes a long way with young children. If you try these tips consistently, you should see the benefits quickly. For more tips on preparing your grandchild for kindergarten, check out my video on supporting young children with academic skills here and social emotional skills here. Make sure to leave a comment saying you found me on More Than Grand!
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DeeDee Moore