If you hate writing emails, this is for you
Have you ever had to write a difficult email to your child's teacher? Did it fill you with anxiety? I've got three tips for you to make writing that email go a lot smoother.
"My tongue is sacred, I speak upon what I like"
Yes, and? by Arianna Grande
Have you ever had to write a difficult email to your child's teacher? Did it fill you with anxiety? I've got three tips for you to make writing that email go a lot smoother.
3 tips to write a difficult email to your child's teacher
- Be brief: It's likely the teacher has an idea of what happened already, so you don't need to explain every detail. Try to keep the whole email under ten sentences.
- Stay Focused: Before you write, figure out exactly what you're trying to ask. Is your child struggling with schoolwork? Are you confused about a consequence? Are you unsure what happened at school? Don't write until you can narrow it down to a clear concern.
- You're on a team: Context is lost quickly in emails so it's easy for the reader to accidentally read your words harshly. To prevent this, make sure you thank the teacher and/or acknowledge the importance of their perspective. And when she responds, I doubt the email will have been written with a harsh tone. If it feels harsh, ask someone else to read it out loud to you.
Need some inspiration? Download my free email templates. Just need to plug in your kiddo's name and details- then send!
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