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The Parents’ Guide to Elementary School

Hi, I’m Natalie, your guide through the school system, and your partner in navigating it with confidence.

Support your child’s learning journey with real answers, expert insights, and approachable advice and strategies from someone who fosters academic growth and partnerships. That’s where I come in.

I offer clarity, context, and conversation through keynote speaking and workshops for schools, businesses, and parent groups.

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Dec 19
🍾 5 things I'm leaving behind in 2023

🍾 5 things I'm leaving behind in 2023

In one of the most hectic times of year, I just want to say thank you for opening this newsletter. I really appreciate your support. đź©· This will be my last newsletter of 2023, so I'm going to reflect a bit here...
2 min read
Dec 16
Ask an Elementary School Teacher: December Q&A with Primary Focus

Ask an Elementary School Teacher: December Q&A with Primary Focus

In the December Q&A with Primary Focus, get expert tips on managing holiday transitions, supporting academic growth, addressing behavioral challenges, and navigating school choice deadlines in Charlotte. Perfect for parents in CMS, private, and magnet school communities.
2 min read
Dec 12
Holiday Teacher Gift Guide for any budget $0-100 | Cute Christmas cards, Luxury gifts, DIY Ornaments

Holiday Teacher Gift Guide for any budget $0-100 | Cute Christmas cards, Luxury gifts, DIY Ornaments

Whether your budget is $0 or $100, Natalie has a great holiday gift for your child’s teacher or favorite school employee. From cute DIY ornament ideas to luxury gifts, there is something your child’s teacher will love.
11 min read
Dec 12
🧠 🥶 Brain Freeze! Simple ways to prevent learning loss over winter break

🧠 🥶 Brain Freeze! Simple ways to prevent learning loss over winter break

Learning loss happens to all children during long breaks from school. While summer break is the famous one, we also see it during winter breaks (or really anything 2+ weeks long). The good news is, it's a really low commitment to prevent it.
2 min read
Dec 05
đź““ What are reading behaviors?

đź““ What are reading behaviors?

The very first time a kindergarten teacher meets a child, they can learn a million things just by handing their student a book... They are looking to see if your child has reading behaviors.
2 min read
Dec 02
Elf on the Shelf in Schools, Christmas Overload, and Rejecting Holiday Traditions

Elf on the Shelf in Schools, Christmas Overload, and Rejecting Holiday Traditions

Christmas celebrations get more extravagant and expensive each year. They say it’s all for the kids…but is it? Natalie breaks down traditions from a child development standpoint to help you understand what traditions need to stay and which ones can go.
11 min read
Nov 28
3 easy, important ways to read with your children

3 easy, important ways to read with your children

When it comes to reading with your children, there's more than one way to do it. Reading in a variety of ways supports your child's reading comprehension and road to independence. The good news is, it's simple to replicate at home...whether your child can read or not.
2 min read
Nov 21
3 pieces of holiday advice no one will tell you

3 pieces of holiday advice no one will tell you

Thanksgiving is an exciting time for Americans, but also the beginning of a chaotic holiday season. Plenty of people will give you advice on how to transform recipes and your home into magical scenes. But that's not my goal today. I want to remind you that your life is great as it is 🥰...
2 min read
Nov 18
How to Talk to Children About Thanksgiving

How to Talk to Children About Thanksgiving

The story of Thanksgiving is outdated and inappropriate. Here's a modern way to teach children about Thanksgiving for all ages.
10 min read
Nov 14
What's a Tween? Milestones for children aged 9, 10, 11, and 12

What's a Tween? Milestones for children aged 9, 10, 11, and 12

A tween is a child aged 8-12 years old. Short for "between" because they aren't little kids, but they aren't teenagers yet either. When we start asking questions about children this age, the conversation usually turns to puberty, but they are so much more than their hormones and changing bodies.
3 min read
Nov 11
My child HATES reading | top 3 tips to get your reluctant reader to love books

My child HATES reading | top 3 tips to get your reluctant reader to love books

Is your child a reluctant reader? They whine when it’s time to read or they only read one book. This video gives you simple tips to get your child to love reading, Whether they are 6 or 16, these tips will help your child become a confident, voracious reader!
8 min read
Nov 07
Milestones for children aged 6, 7, and 8 years old

Milestones for children aged 6, 7, and 8 years old

From ages 0-5 we hear a lot about milestones, but somewhere around school age, people stop talking about them. The responsibility and concern gets handed over to teachers and specialists. This information is not shared as widely with parents.
2 min read

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